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The Ultimate Guide to Planning an Incredible Airbnb Elopement

(Plus My Top 10 Favorite Western North Carolina Airbnb Elopement Venues)

If you’ve been dreaming about an intimate and meaningful wedding day, an Airbnb elopement might be exactly what you’re looking for. Whether it’s just the two of you or you’re planning to include a few of your closest people, eloping at a beautiful Airbnb gives you so much freedom to create a day that actually feels like you.

Man and woman in wedding attire walking away from their elopement ceremony space at airbnb overlooking the mountains.

So… can you have an elopement at an Airbnb?

Short answer: yes! Many couples are skipping the traditional venue route and choosing unique Airbnb properties instead—and honestly, I’m here for it. With the right location (and a little planning), an Airbnb elopement can be cozy, breathtaking, and way more personal than a cookie-cutter venue. Think mountaintop cabins, A-frame homes in the woods, or even dreamy cottages with hot tubs and firepits—there are so many amazing options, especially here in Western North Carolina.

As a photographer who specializes in elopements and micro-weddings, I’ve seen firsthand how magical these intimate celebrations can be. And because I shoot all over the Blue Ridge Mountains, I’ve also gotten pretty familiar with what works—and what doesn’t—when it comes to planning an Airbnb elopement. Whether you’re still tossing the idea around or already halfway through planning, this guide will walk you through everything you need to know, from choosing your Airbnb and making it legal to handling logistics and finding that perfect spot to say “I do.”

Let’s dive in.

5 Steps to Get Started Planning Your Airbnb Elopement

So, you’ve decided an airbnb elopement is your vibe—yay! Now it’s time to start turning that vision into a real, meaningful experience. These five steps will help you get organized and excited about all the possibilities ahead. Whether you’re eloping in the mountains of Western North Carolina or somewhere else dreamy, this is where the magic begins.

1. Setting a Budget

Before you fall in love with a mountaintop A-frame or start hunting down floral inspo on Pinterest, start with your budget. Elopements are typically more affordable than traditional weddings, but costs can still add up quickly—especially if you’re planning a multi-day stay at a luxury Airbnb, hiring a private chef, or bringing in decor and vendors.

Things to factor in:

  • Your Airbnb rental (2–3 nights is ideal!)
  • Photographer (hey, that’s me 👋)
  • Travel and meals
  • Vendors like hair + makeup, florals, officiant, etc.
  • Any permit fees (if you’re doing a ceremony off-site, like in a nearby park or overlook)
  • Attire, details, and a little fun money for adventures or cozy extras

Having a clear idea of what you’re working with helps guide every other decision from here on out.

2. Creating Your Guest List

Even though elopements are typically smaller, it’s still important to think about who (if anyone) you want to include. Do you want it to be just the two of you? Or are you imagining a small group of your closest family or friends cheering you on?

A few things to consider:

  • How many people can the Airbnb accommodate overnight?
  • Is there enough indoor or outdoor space for a small ceremony and dinner?
  • Are you open to renting a second Airbnb nearby for guests if needed?

There’s no wrong answer here—it’s all about what feels best for the two of you. Just keep in mind that the more people you invite, the more logistics you’ll need to plan for (like meals, bathrooms, and parking).

3. Choosing an Airbnb (and Confirming It’s Wedding-Friendly)

Not all Airbnbs are created equal when it comes to hosting an elopement. Some properties are perfect for lounging with a glass of wine and enjoying mountain views—but might not be suitable for a ceremony or group gathering. That’s why it’s so important to do your homework before booking.

Here’s what to look for when choosing the right Airbnb for your elopement:

  • Is the host okay with events? Always ask. Even if you’re only having 6–8 people and keeping it super low-key, you still want full transparency. Some hosts are totally down for intimate elopements—others aren’t.
  • Natural light. As a photographer, this is huge. Spaces with big windows, white or neutral walls, and clean design photograph beautifully. You’ll thank yourself later when your photos look like they belong in a magazine.
  • Is there a ceremony spot on-site (or nearby)? A dreamy backyard, mountain view deck, open field, or cozy fireplace setup? Bonus points if there’s an epic overlook or trailhead a short drive away.
  • Is there room for dinner and celebration? Think about whether there’s enough seating for your guests, a table for a private chef meal, or space for a cozy dinner set-up with candles and florals.
  • Is it pet-friendly? If you are planning to include your four-legged babies then make sure you confirm that the space allows pets.

Pro tip: I’ve worked with a ton of amazing Airbnbs in the area and have a go-to list I share with my couples—including ones where the host loves when people elope there. (Stick around ‘til the end of this post for my top 10 favs!)

4. Picking the Perfect Vendors

Even if you’re keeping things low-key, the right vendors can take your airbnb elopement from beautiful to unforgettable. The best part? You can totally customize your vendor team to fit your vision.

Here are the vendors I recommend most often for Airbnb elopements:

  • Photographer (hi again 👋): Someone who knows how to work with natural light, helps you feel relaxed, and can document your day in a way that feels like you.
  • Hair & Makeup Artist: A traveling artist who can come to the Airbnb and help you get ready in a relaxed, intimate space.
  • Officiant: Whether it’s a friend who gets ordained or a professional who knows how to keep things chill and meaningful.
  • Florist: Even a small bouquet and some tabletop florals can totally transform your space.
  • Private Chef or Caterer: Think candlelit dinner on the deck or a beautiful grazing board spread inside.

You don’t need a huge team, but having a few pros you trust makes all the difference.

5. Using Decor to Elevate the Space

One of the best parts of a airbnb elopement is how cozy and personalized it can feel. But if you want to take it up a notch, bringing in a few intentional decor pieces can really set the vibe and help everything feel more special.

Here are a few decor ideas that work great in Airbnb settings:

  • Candles (real or battery-operated) for dinner, flat lays, or your ceremony space
  • String lights or lanterns if you’re outside
  • A few floral arrangements or bud vases
  • Textured linens or a beautiful runner for your dinner table
  • A sign or framed quote with your vows or last name

Before you start shopping, check with the Airbnb host! Some Airbnbs already have cute decor or usable items like vintage plates, mismatched chairs, or cozy blankets you can incorporate into your celebration. And if you’re planning a dinner, make sure there’s enough room for everyone to sit comfortably and enjoy the meal—inside or out.

Understanding the Marriage License Process

Alright, so you’ve found the perfect spot, booked your dream Airbnb, and started thinking about flowers and dinner vibes—but let’s not forget the one thing that makes it official: the marriage license.

Getting legally married during your airbnb elopement is actually super straightforward, but there are a few things you’ll want to plan for ahead of time—especially if you’re traveling from out of state or eloping on a weekend.

Here’s what you need to know:

📝 Where to Get It

In most states, you’ll need to apply for a marriage license through a local government office—usually the county clerk or Register of Deeds. Some places require you to get the license in the same county where your elopement will take place, while others let you use it anywhere in the state.

So before anything else, look up the rules for the state (and possibly the county) where you’re eloping.

👩‍❤️‍👨 What You’ll Need to Bring

You’ll almost always need:

  • A government-issued photo ID (like a driver’s license or passport)
  • Your Social Security number (some states require proof, others just ask for the number)
  • Payment (fees vary, but most are around $30–$100 depending on the location)

Some states also ask for additional info like divorce decrees if you’ve been previously married, so it’s a good idea to double-check those details ahead of time.

Also: many counties now offer an online pre-application or appointment system to save you time when you show up. Use it if you can!

🗓️ Timing

Marriage licenses are usually only valid for a limited window—often 30 to 90 days—so you’ll want to time your application close enough to the elopement that it’s still valid, but not so close that you’re stressing last minute.

Some states have no waiting period (you can get married the same day), while others have a required waiting period of 1–5 days. Again, it totally depends on the state!

💍 Who Can Officiate

Most states require that your marriage is performed by a legally recognized officiant. This could be:

  • A professional wedding officiant
  • A religious leader (minister, pastor, rabbi, etc.)
  • A friend or family member who becomes ordained online (like through Universal Life Church—it’s super easy and fast!)

Make sure whoever’s marrying you understands your state’s rules and how to properly sign and return the license afterward.

Some states allow self-solemnization (where you marry yourselves without an officiant—Colorado and Pennsylvania are two examples), but that’s still the exception rather than the rule. So definitely check first if you’re hoping to go that route.

✍️ Witnesses

Most states require one or two witnesses to sign your marriage license—though a few don’t require any at all. If you’re eloping with guests, this is super easy. But if you’re eloping just the two of you, don’t worry!

As your photographer, I’m always happy to sign as a witness (and I know lots of local vendors or park rangers who will, too, if needed). You don’t need to overthink this—it always works out.

IF YOU ARE LOOKING INTO THE MARRIAGE LICENSE PROCESS SPECIFIC TO NORTH CAROLINA, CHECK OUT THIS COMPLETE GUIDE TO NORTH CAROLINA MARRIAGE LICENSE + LAWS.

Tips for an Airbnb Elopement

By now, you’re probably already dreaming of cozy candlelight dinner, stunning views, and sharing your vows with just your person (and maybe your dog) by your side. But let’s make sure everything goes off without a hitch. These airbnb elopement tips are all about helping your day feel seamless, intentional, and fun—from the first mimosa to the last dance in the kitchen.

Airbnb elopement ceremony on deck overlooking the mountains.

Double Check Everything Beforehand

I can’t stress this enough—double check everything ahead of time.

Airbnbs are constantly changing: hosts update house rules, remove amenities, or even block off dates. So as your day approaches, confirm:

  • Your reservation is still active
  • The space still allows events/photoshoots
  • Any special rules around guests, vendors, or noise
  • What’s actually provided (linens, dishes, furniture, etc.)

It’s also a good idea to message your host to let them know you’ll be having a small airbnb elopement so there are no surprises. Be respectful, let them know the vibe is intimate, and offer to share a few photos of their space if they’re open to it!

Have a Backup Plan for Photos

Lighting, weather, and timing are everything when it comes to photos—especially at Airbnbs, where you’re working with a lived-in space.

Here’s what helps:

  • Scout the space (or ask your photographer to) beforehand to get a feel for where the best light is.
  • Have a plan B in case it rains or the sun dips earlier than expected. Covered porches, cozy indoor corners, or even venturing off-site to a nearby overlook can save the day.
  • If you’re in the mountains or the woods, be aware that sunset happens earlier than your weather app says—especially in fall and winter!

Trust me—some of the most magical airbnb elopement photos come from unexpected lighting and creative solutions.

Don’t Forget the “Personal” Touches

This is your day, and even if it’s low-key and cozy, it deserves to feel like you. Bring in those little personal elements that tell your story. Think:

  • Your favorite records or playlist playing in the background
  • A handwritten note or vow book
  • Your grandma’s vintage china for dinner
  • Matching socks, favorite drinks, Polaroid cameras, a signature scent—whatever feels meaningful

The beauty of an airbnb elopement is that you’re not just checking into a venue—you’re creating an experience. A cozy, lived-in space makes it easy to incorporate those small but powerful touches that make the day feel unforgettable.

Consider Your Pets (If They’re Coming!)

One of the best parts of a private airbnb elopement? You can bring your pup. But make sure:

  • The property allows pets
  • There’s a safe space for them to hang out when you’re doing photos or having dinner
  • You bring treats, a leash, water bowl, and maybe a cute little bow tie or flower crown (because… obviously)

What to Pack for Your Airbnb Elopement

There’s something so magical about spending your wedding day tucked away in a cozy Airbnb… but unlike traditional venues (or hotels), you’ll want to come prepared with a few extra things to make the day stress-free. Whether you’re getting ready by the fireplace or dancing in the backyard under string lights, this list will help make sure you’ve got everything covered.

family surrounded a small kitchen island getting food from their catered dinner.

Pack for the Weather

This one’s especially important if you’re eloping in the mountains or during a transitional season. Temps can change quickly, and you’ll be glad you thought ahead!

  • Bring layers (think: jackets, shawls, or cozy blankets)
  • Waterproof boots or a change of shoes for outdoor photos
  • Clear umbrellas (they actually look great in photos!)
  • Extra socks (cold toes = no fun)

Even in the summer, it can get chilly in the mornings or evenings—especially in Western North Carolina—so don’t be afraid to overpack a little when it comes to staying comfy and warm.

Bring “Touch-Up” Items

Your wedding day is probably going to include a lot of happy tears, champagne toasts, and maybe even a little wind or rain—so having a small essentials or emergency kit can be a total lifesaver.

Here are a few things I always recommend packing:

  • Blotting papers or a powder compact
  • Lip balm or lipstick for touch-ups
  • Bobby pins & hair ties
  • Mini hairspray
  • Stain remover pen
  • Band-aids & pain reliever
  • Lint roller
  • Safety pins or fashion tape
  • Deodorant
  • Tissues (you’ll need them!)
  • Portable phone charger

Pro tip: If you hire a hair & makeup artist, ask them for a little touch-up kit to take with you. Most are happy to provide one!

Pack for the After Party

Just because it’s an elopement doesn’t mean you can’t celebrate! Whether it’s a champagne toast, a private chef-cooked dinner, or dancing barefoot in the living room, make space in your bag for the post-ceremony vibes.

Some ideas:

  • A cozy outfit or matching PJ set
  • A bottle of bubbly and your favorite snacks
  • Bluetooth speaker + curated playlist
  • Games, wine glasses, or a Polaroid camera
  • A cute cake (or cupcakes, donuts, or anything sweet)
  • A journal to write down everything you felt that day

This is the part most people don’t think about—but it’s honestly one of the best things about an airbnb elopement: you get to slow down, enjoy the moment, and really soak it all in.

Here are my top tips for what to bring with you:

For CoupleFor VendorsDecorPersonal ItemsFor Post Ceremony
Marriage LicenseVendor Contact listSignage (welcome sign, etc.)RingsComfortable shoes
Wedding Attire (dress, suit, shoes, accessories)Any specific instructions (parking, access, etc.)Candles/string lightsJewelry (earrings, necklace, etc.)Snacks/celebratory drinks
Vows/Vow booksPayment/tip for vendors (if not paid in advance)Floral arrangements, if not being dropped offPersonal keepsakes or gifts for each otherPicnic basket or small cooler
Hair & Makeup Touch up kitTable settings (plates, glasses, napkins, cake cutting set, etc)Special items for the ceremony (family heirlooms or special traditions)Portable speaker for music
Steamer/IronCeremony seating (chairs, blankets, etc.)

Top 10 BEST Western North Carolina Airbnb Elopement Venues

I’ve been putting together a list of my favorite Western North Carolina Airbnbs for years—no seriously, I have so many saved, it’s kind of a problem. 😅 Whether you’re dreaming of mountain views, A-frame cabins, or a luxury glamping escape, these spots are the perfect setting for an unforgettable airbnb elopement.

These aren’t just pretty places—they’re spots I’ve either photographed in, drooled over while scrolling, or recommended to couples because they totally get it. Cozy, photogenic, ceremony-ready, and full of that adventurous North Carolina charm.

Let’s dive in:

1. Smoky Mountain Getaway

Man and woman during their airbnb elopement sunset photos overlooking the mountains.

Tucked away in Cherokee, NC, this spot is perfect for couples who want privacy, panoramic views, and a cozy cabin feel. There’s space for a ceremony on-site and it gets the dreamiest golden hour light.

✨ View Adriana & Scott’s Airbnb Elopement >> HERE << !

2. Firelight at Shope Creek

firelight cabins at shope creek.

These modern-rustic cabins are nestled in the woods just outside Asheville. The vibe is peaceful and romantic with beautiful wood interiors and big windows. They are on Airbnb but you can also take a look at their WEBSITE!

3. Little Mountain A-Frame

a frame cabin in north carolina for an airbnb elopement.

This adorable A-frame cabin in the mountains is a favorite for a reason. It’s cozy, stylish, and absolutely perfect for a couple’s getaway with a few guests. There’s room for dinner, amazing photo ops, and it’s super close to hiking trails.

4. The Glamping Collective

glamping domes in north carolina for an airbnb elopement overlooking the mountains.

If you want something totally unique, this place is next level. Think luxury domes, glass-fronted pods, and panoramic views of the Blue Ridge Mountains. It’s elopement heaven. Also, it’s perfect for stargazing post-ceremony.

5. Hide Inn Seek Treehouse

treehouse cabin in north carolina for an airbnb elopement.

Talk about ✨magical.✨ This treehouse in Highlands, NC is the spot for couples who want something whimsical and intimate. The design is insanely charming and there’s a private deck with a hot tub that is perfect for cozy post-elopement vibes.

View Kaleb & Skylar’s Airbnb Elopement >> HERE <<!

6. Paint Rock Farm

stunning cabins in north carolina for an airbnb elopement.

Set on 160+ acres with mountain views, a rustic barn, and glamping yurts, this one is perfect for couples who want that boho outdoor vibe but with plenty of space. You can book cabins or bring in guests for a larger elopement weekend.

7. Arcadian Ave

man and woman during wedding ceremony in north carolina on airbnb deck.

This beautiful space has incredible mountain views with multiple Airbnbs. It’s a dreamy location for an elopement with a handful of guests. Plus, there are so many options for ceremony and dinner spaces!

8. The Branch House

a frame cabin in north carolina for an airbnb elopement.

A bright and airy cabin near Boone, NC that’s all about those cozy, romantic vibes. It has huge windows, tons of greenery around, and feels super private. Perfect for intimate ceremonies with a built-in honeymoon getaway.

9. Magnolia Grace Farms

stunning farmhouse in north carolina for an airbnb elopement.

Okay, this is a farm with all the charm and is often rented out for intimate weddings and elopements. Beautiful fields, great spaces for dinner or photos, and a cozy farmhouse to stay in. Check out their WEBSITE!

10. Blackberry Springs Farm

man and woman in wedding attire spraying champagne in front of their north carolina airbnb.

This one is tucked away in a quiet little cove and feels like your own private mountain retreat. You’ll find a charming farmhouse, gardens, and plenty of open space to create your dream airbnb elopement setup.

BONUS 11. Weddings Over Waterfalls

waterfall cabin in north carolina for an airbnb elopement.

If you’re dreaming of an elopement with actual waterfalls, this one’s for you. They specialize in small, adventurous weddings and have multiple locations, including cabins, treehouses, and—yep—private waterfalls. Take a look at their WEBSITE!

All of these spots give you the freedom to create a wedding experience that’s actually about you two. Whether you want a chill morning in your pajamas, a private chef dinner, or a dance party under the stars, these venues have the flexibility to make it happen.

Just be sure to double check with the hosts before booking and let them know you’re planning a small elopement. Respect the space, leave it better than you found it, and your airbnb elopement will be the most memorable, magical day.

I’ve been putting together a list of my favorite Western North Carolina Airbnb’s for YEARS, take a look at my saves!!!

Airbnb Elopement Photographer

Planning an airbnb elopement isn’t just about finding a pretty place to stay—it’s about creating a wedding day that actually feels like you. Whether you’re imagining a slow morning with coffee and pancakes in the kitchen, saying your vows under the trees in the backyard, or popping champagne in the hot tub at sunset, I’m here to help bring that vision to life.

As an elopement photographer, I don’t just show up with a camera. I’m your built-in guide, planning assistant, location scout, timeline pro, and biggest hype woman. I’ve helped couples plan everything from mountaintop vow exchanges to cozy Airbnb dinners with their closest people—and I know how to make the whole process feel easy, meaningful, and fun.

man and woman in wedding attire inside of a frame cabin smiling at each other.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed by all the choices or just don’t know where to start, don’t worry. I help all of my couples find the perfect Airbnb for their elopement, figure out what’s photo-friendly and ceremony-approved, and build a timeline that flows naturally with the space. No rushing. No awkward posing. Just real, joyful moments that reflect who you are.

From scouting dreamy locations to helping you decide where to say your vows, I’ve got you. I’ll even help with vendor recs, packing lists, and backup photo plans in case the weather throws us a curveball (because let’s be real—it’s the mountains, and anything can happen).

So if you’re ready to create a day that’s less about tradition and more about intention, let’s connect. I’d love to help you dream up your perfect airbnb elopement—and then document it in a way that feels like you.

👉 Reach out here to start planning, or shoot me a message and tell me what you’re envisioning. Let’s make some magic.

Airbnb Elopement Packages

Ready to start planning your Airbnb elopement? Whether you’ve already booked the dream cabin or you’re still scrolling through Airbnb listings at 2am (we’ve all been there), I’ve got you covered. My elopement packages are designed to make the entire process feel simple, personal, and—most importantly—fun.

Here’s what you can expect when you book an airbnb elopement package with me:

💍 Location Scouting + Airbnb Assistance

Not all Airbnbs allow elopements, and not all of them photograph well. I’ll help you sort through your options to find one that not only fits your vibe but also works for everything from getting ready to saying your vows to sitting down for dinner.

📋 Custom Timeline Planning

No cookie-cutter timelines here. I’ll help you build a day that flows naturally and gives you time to soak it all in—from slow mornings with coffee to dancing barefoot under the stars.

📸 Professional Photography Coverage

Whether you’re planning a quick, intimate ceremony or a full-day experience with dinner, adventure, and everything in between, I offer flexible coverage to fit your day. Think storytelling, not stiff posing—photos that actually feel like your relationship.

🧭 Vendor Recommendations

Need a private chef? A florist who works magic with wildflowers? A hair and makeup artist who can come to your Airbnb? I’ve got a list of trusted, talented vendors who specialize in intimate weddings and elopements.

🧳 Travel Included

Most packages include travel anywhere in Western North Carolina—so you can pick the Airbnb that speaks to you without worrying about extra fees.

💌 Optional Add-Ons

Want to add on a couples session the day before or a cozy in-home session the day after your elopement? Let’s do it! These moments make the best additions to your gallery and give you space to slow down and be present.

Whether you’re planning something adventurous, laid-back, or somewhere in between, I’m here to support you every step of the way. My goal? For you to look back and say, “That was so us.” And to have photos that bring you right back to how it all felt.

Let’s create a day that feels effortless, magical, and wildly you.

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